So I caught the Nightline interview and saw as much of the Oprah interview on YouTube as I could. For something so intriguing with such potential, I am saddened at what is coming across in these interviews. Given what he preached before and the nature of the story, everyone wants Haggard to give an answer to whether he still believes homosexuality is a sin/wrong. To which he gives a theologically flimsy answer of, “For me it is.”

But I think the problem is we are asking the wrong question. The question doesn’t address the problem. The problem is not a particular sexuality (hetero, homo, or bi) but how we honor God in our sexual “appetite”, if you will — whatever it may be.

Granted, the question assumes you are talking about the engaging in homosexual activity, but to simply say “Homosexuality is a sin,” makes about as much sense as saying, “Heterosexuality is a sin — unless you’re married.” There is too much to be misunderstood.

To Christians

Imagine being Jewish and the Gentiles are in their backyard cooking up some BBQ pork ribs (or possibly The Bacon Explosion). No law is broken smelling the smoke and thinking, “Man, that smells delicious.” Now if you happen to hate the smell of cooking pig, be thankful for God’s grace, but what of the Hebrew BBQ lovers? How should they be treated? Should they just “pray the pork away” or “get more involved in the temple”?

I think Haggard’s experience shows how completely ill-prepared the church is when it comes to ministering to people struggling in this. Seeing that our current model of government permits free speech and would not permit mass executions (as others have), the Church’s behavior has left these people with only three choices. To either continue in shame, die in shame, or accept it and be proud of it. It is no wonder national tensions are where they are these days.

My most frustrating question for me is … given how Haggard is responding to these questions (that ultimately reveal his understanding of theology), how in the world did he ever get elevated to the title of President of the National Association of Evangelicals? His wife has communicated and lived out a more of Christian world-view through all this than he has — she is clearly more qualified than he ever was.

To Oprahlites

To say “God would never want us to suppress what comes so naturally to us” just doesn’t work when you apply it in real life. What of the person that has a natural attraction to minors? What of the heterosexual, married male that is naturally attracted to other women besides his wife?

God is very clear about how we are to handle our sexual “appetites” no matter what they are. Take it outside of sexuality and apply it other areas and it becomes even more clear. What if our natural desire is to drink all the time? Or to eat all the time? What if our natural reaction to frustration is fist-throwing rage? Surely, God wouldn’t want us to suppress that, right?

The scriptures say that man’s natural desires are in rebellion against God and give us very clear lines of what God’s holiness demands. While it may sound good, it’s not what God wants and it doesn’t work in real life.

(And on whose authority is Oprah speaking for what God really wants anyway?)

The Bottom Line

Oprahlites, the Scriptures clearly say that engaging in homosexual activity is wrong — don’t demand that Christians accept and embrace it. That’s like demanding a Muslim to remove her head covering. (How politically incorrect is that?)

Heterosexual Christians, be thankful for God’s grace regarding your sexual preference. Know your doctrine of original sin. Know that different people struggle with different things and fall in different ways. Make your church a place where the Word is proclaimed and where someone can openly share their struggle in this and be ministered to.

Random Thoughts

• We are inherently sinful from birth, and only by God’s grace is there any hope of doing anything out of faith (being righteous)
• The lack of accountability and openness in Church leadership is pretty evident
• The unspoken pressure to be perfect within church-culture needs to be addressed (how about by preaching the doctrine of original sin?)
• There has been a great misunderstanding between the Church and the pro-homosexual community. While we will never agree on the morality of the issue, misrepresenting each other only adds to the vitriol that need not exist.
• Ted needs to recognize that he is a bi-sexual and decide if he wants to honor God in his sexuality or not.
• Unless your sin is covered by the blood of Christ there will be no mercy from the coming wrath of God.